A rear Human Quality or a classy way to get served!
Today was a bit weird; you could say I have experienced the “it’s not you it’s me” scenario, this is unfortunate for me, this was not an intimate relationship, this was just a very good relationship bounded by respect and mutual trust all the way, I guess this is the reason why my “Friend” decided to pull me to the side and tell me that we won’t be seeing each other outside the work place and that all conduct from now on are strictly professional, at first I was taken back by this notion, so I asked was it something I said or did? The answerer came back (yup you guessed it), technically it was “No. it’s nothing you have done or said”, basically I was told that I am respected as a brother and welcomed to advice n the work place, my “Friend” is just not comfortable with the outings, I respect that , this displays a rare human quality we don’t see this days, my “friend” could have easily made excuses tell I just stopped asking (like some other person I know), but instead had the human courtesy to talk to me about it, I respect that , and I would not want someone that has such high quality and ethics to feel uncomfortable , so I guess it falls upon me to honor this trust and respect, that’s what I did, I said I appreciate the talk , I sure do , but in all honesty I did have feelings of great lose, this intellectual “Friend” gave me a lot to think of and many good advice, so to my “Friend” thank you for the good advice and all the time, I shall cherish this moments greatly. Thank you for your honesty and trust.
